The Fashionable Mom

I know you guys think I’m crazy, but one of the things I worry about is not being a stylish mom when the girls get here.  Sure there will be a short period of time where I’m not going to know up from down and right from left, but after that haze has lifted will I be myself?  I have witnessed some of my friends have children and then basically let themselves go.  What I mean by that is they no longer care about anything except being a mother.  I want to clarify I am NOT passing judgment and they are over the moon happy with their new life and I couldn’t be happier for them.  I, at this point in my life, cannot see myself giving up that part of me.  At least I’m worried that I will give up that part of me.  Sigh.  It sounds so vain and so trivial especially since all I want is for these girls to be healthy.  Mentally, physically and emotionally.  I want nothing more than to hold them and love them and kiss them.  I can still do all this wearing heels and furs, right?  Fashion has been such a huge part of my life for so long.  I doesn’t define me, but it represents me.  What do you mothers out there think?  Am I crazy?  Did you return to your former self just a little modified?  I need your advice.  HELP!

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