I know you guys think I’m crazy, but one of the things I worry about is not being a stylish mom when the girls get here. Sure there will be a short period of time where I’m not going to know up from down and right from left, but after that haze has lifted will I be myself? I have witnessed some of my friends have children and then basically let themselves go. What I mean by that is they no longer care about anything except being a mother. I want to clarify I am NOT passing judgment and they are over the moon happy with their new life and I couldn’t be happier for them. I, at this point in my life, cannot see myself giving up that part of me. At least I’m worried that I will give up that part of me. Sigh. It sounds so vain and so trivial especially since all I want is for these girls to be healthy. Mentally, physically and emotionally. I want nothing more than to hold them and love them and kiss them. I can still do all this wearing heels and furs, right? Fashion has been such a huge part of my life for so long. I doesn’t define me, but it represents me. What do you mothers out there think? Am I crazy? Did you return to your former self just a little modified? I need your advice. HELP!